JDs guide to smokers
I once got called shallow. Okay not just once, quite frequently in fact, however one particular occasion prompted a moment of pause. "Refusing to a date woman because they smoke is just shallow!" I was loudly informed.
"You should judge a person by their personality, not something trivial, like smoking. That's a personal choice!"
I pondered for a moment, before politely responding to her: "it's not just the smoking that bothers me. You're also ugly".
I'm definitely not shallow.